Over Value, Memory and conscious decisions

In one World, in the many fast available is, wins something other to Meaning: the, what remains.

Not only at Relationships rather also at Gifts.

A Gift is no Object. It is a Sign.

And Sign unfold her Effect not in the moment the presentation – rather in the Time afterwards.

Why we us to some Gifts remember – and to other not

Almost everyone knows this Difference:

Some Gifts disappear fast out of dem Everyday. Other remain present – sometimes about Years.

The Reason for that lies rarely in the Price. It lies in the duration .

What remains:

·         becomes seen

·         becomes remembers

·         becomes Part the Habitat

What disappears loses his Effect – himself if the moment nice was.

Memory arises through Repetition

Memories arise not only through size Events, rather through Presence. What man regularly sees, shapes itself deeper a as the, What only short there was.

A permanent Gift:

·         remembers not only to the Occasion

·        
rather to the People Behind it, it seems quiet, but constant.

Why transience emotionally contradictory be can

Many classic Gifts are ephemeral. Flowers wilt, Things become replaced Trends fade away.

The stands often in the Contradiction to dem, What man actually to express want:

·         Love, the remains

·         Gratitude, the not ends

·         Vicinity, the not time limited is

Each more the Feeling, the more inappropriate works Transience.

Permanent Gifts change the Statement

A Gift with Length of time says not:

"I have to you thought."

Rather:

"You are Part my Everyday life."

This Difference is subtle – but decisive.

Why durable Gifts as high-quality felt become

High quality becomes not only above material defined.

She arises through:

·         resistance

·         Restraint

·         Timelessness

A Gift, the also after months still present is, works automatically thoughtful as one that needs to be replaced.

Timelessness instead of trend

Trends are loud. Timelessness is quiet. And precise . Therefore, it works she longer.

Gifts, the:

·         none Fashions consequences

·         not explained become must

·        
itself in different Life phases Inserting elements is often perceived as more personal.

Gifts as Part the Living space

A permanent Gift becomes Part the Space. And spaces shape moods.

What visible remains:

·         accompanied Discussions

·         remembers casual

·         becomes Part from Memories

Not intrusive, rather of course.

Why reduction often more works as Overloading

Many Gifts attempt, Impression to do. But effect arises often through Reduction.

A reduced Gift:

·         lets Space for interpretation

·         steers not from the Feeling away

·         works sovereign instead of engaged

This Restraint becomes frequently as particularly high-quality perceived.

Consciously give instead of fast give

A consciously chosen Gift differs itself from a spontaneous through:

·         Time

·         Attention

·         Intention

It shows, that not the Occasion decisive was rather the Person.

Gifts and attitude

A Gift says always something above the Donors out. Not only about the taste, but about the Attitude.

Permanent Gifts stand often for:

·         reliability

·         Appreciation

·         depth

She are no effect – she are a Statement.

Why People itself increasingly for durable Gifts decide

Many People feel one certain fatigue opposite:

·         Disposable products

·         short-term impulses

·         interchangeable Gestures

Durable Gifts works in this context How one conscious Countermovement.

If a Gift the Everyday accompanied

A Gift, the remains, becomes not constant consciously perceived. And exactly Therein lies its Strength.

It is there:

·         in the background

·         in the Space

·         in the Life

And remembers Exactly then, if man not with it calculates.

The role from emotion at conscious Gifts

emotion needs none Abundance.

She needs Authenticity.

Gifts with emotional Value:

·         explain itself not

·         justify itself not

·         works through presence

Why durable Flowers one special role play

Flowers stand traditional for Emotion.

If this emotion visible remains, reinforced itself her Effective. Long-lasting Flowers connect:

·         classic symbolism

·         modern needs

·         emotional resistance

She are no Substitute, rather one Further development.

Gifts without Occasion – often the most honest

A Gift without Occasion works not planned. It seems deliberate.

Straight such Gestures remain often particularly in Memory, because she: